When we hear the term “your true colour” what often first comes to mind is some horrible attitude shown
in critical times.
It’s like this a lady who is fair and happy, friendly and playful all day but is provoked at
some later part of the day and overreacts to the person who annoys her by saying
something nasty. Many folks would turn to her and sneer, saying that’s her true color; a snarly
insultive soul.
But the question is this, why have we chosen to define ourselves and others by our worst
actions? why do we ignore everything else and settle for only that which paints ourselves and others in our worst possible light? And then declare, this is who we truly are?
If you wrote a test and scored 9 out of 10 questions, what do you want to be said, the one
who failed the tenth question? Or the one who got 9 questions?
A better description would be the one who got 9 out of 10 questions, it paints the narrative that though you were not perfect, you gave quite an effort.
We must remember this, we are all works in progress, none of us have quite gotten there,
Paul in the bible pens words which resounds to us all; the things I wish to do, I do them
not, it seems to be the other way round, I need help.
Who we are is not just who we are under pressure, it’s who we are all day and every day,
not just during the bad times but in the good times as well. While pressure may reveal aspects of
us that do not show up on a daily basis, the life we live on a daily basis cannot be
extradited in the definition of who we are. We are the total of our days, not just the low
days, but the high, low, and medium. Our true color is mixed along these lines, not in a
monochrome black or white.
We can be beautiful and friendly yet fighting addictions and self-esteem issues, we
are not defined by the one we are defined by the whole and by the one we choose to be. And even greater truth is that we are defined by who God says we are, regardless of our current imperfections.